Folks will say the most important sexual organ is the brain. Chemistry, pheromones and instinct play their parts when it comes to attraction and procreation but when it comes to sex for sheer enjoyment; the mind rules the matter.
Ever since our race figured out sex was the true stuff of life we’ve elevated it far above simple biological function. Sex and all it’s implications were the reason for the invention of civilization. Marriage was invented to assign inheritance to the products of sex, children. Even calendars and clocks were created by polygamist husbands to manage their appointments with wives and concubines. The propagation of the human race -and all that’s related to sex- is mandated in religion and enforced by civil law. Sex is much more than "making babies" and what turns us on is only limited by our main sexual organ, our brain.
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"In the feeding frenzy of adult Internet traffic, the fish that shines is the one snagged up by surfers." |
In the feeding frenzy of adult Internet traffic, the fish that shines is the one snagged up by surfers. Everybody is stocking the water with niche sites because niche sites shine. They stand out in a huge world of general-purpose porn. Niche sites are so popular that individual niches have themselves become over saturated with suppliers. What was hot yesterday is not today.
Balloons? Feh. Trampling? Pshaw. Plushies and Furries? That is so yesterday. One has to move with the times and the tastes to get ahead in the niche game. An adult webmaster has to delve into the nooks and crannies of human sexuality to find those activities, which are popular enough to have a market yet obscure enough to shine.
This installment of our Cozy favorite "Niches You Need to Know" is all about imagination and it’s sexual force. We look into some folks who have taken fantasy and turned it into sexual reality. We explore people who have actual training facilities for their bondage fun. We visit in on individuals who get their kicks amusing themselves. Are you ready? Here you go:
Gor isn’t the name of an ex-vice president nor is it a misspelled reference to blood and guts. Gor is a lifestyle based on a novel. Blah novels to be precise.
Gor is the world created by some fucking author. Gor rotates around the sun directly across from the Earth. Gor has strict laws against technology even though it’s orbit is maintained by the science of the Father Priests. Gor has a strong patriarchal culture where women are submissive slaves. Sex slaves baby.
There are bunches of Gor lovers all over the world. They hold gatherings and events. They have websites and newsgroups. The whole submissive female thing is very appealing to men and women alike. Gor is not Goth nor is it primarily BDSM. Gor is Gor.
To learn more about Gor and how you can use it to your advantage, try this link:
http://dreamstrike.com/gorintro.html
Bondage, domination and sadomasochism as sexual entertainment involve role-playing and many times scripted scenarios. The modern BDSM practitioner works in complete cooperation with their partner, submissive or dominant. The willing BDSM novice has a more fulfilling experience if guided with thorough instruction and care. Role-playing is dangerous business if not planned.
Just because a person is into pain doesn’t mean they want to killed or maimed. This need for order and proper orientation explains the existence of training schools for BDSM lovers.
Imagine building a BDSM site centered on training at bondage school. Imagine the possibilities for erotica authors. The possible content scenarios are unlimited. So many novice BDSM
aficionados actually attend such schools and organized training events.
To see the sites and understand the mindset of BDSM training facilities, visit:
http://dungeonnet.com/weblinks/Schools/
Some kids would rather play alone. Self-bondage is not a contradiction in terms. Who can a people trust more than themselves? For whatever reasons, there are thousands of individuals who achieve sexual satisfaction from binding themselves in various ways. They write stories about their fantasies/experiences. They purchase special equipment. They follow strict rules of safety. They enact elaborate pre-scripted scenarios. They love/hurt alone and like it.
A lot of self-bondage is about confinement and loss of sensual function. The embryonic sensation of an inflatable suit is as stimulating as the pressure from the air inside the rubber outfit. The self-bonder can get a thrill from a hog-tie as much as from semi-mummification. Each self-bondage lover chooses they way they will go about their fun. Your job as a webmaster is to show them they are not alone and how to enjoy their fantasies safely. Supply them with links and resources that will cater to their tastes. Appeal to them as you would any other potential surfer.
To familiarize yourself with the ways of the self-bondage lover, go here:
http://www.dajungle.com/fetish/cuffmenow/Whatis.html
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